Wednesday, February 4, 2009

practice, practice, practice

No, this is not a story about how one should practice to the point of nausia to succeed.

It's just plain ole funny and I had to share it. Enjoy!
[written by ECHOWOOD on YesButNoButYes.com]

It was one of those things to check off the list. I was sure sleeping with Charlize Theron wasn't ever going to happen, nor was climbing Mount Everest due to my paralyzing fear of Tibetans. But the one item I had a shot at was playing Carnegie Hall. While I wouldn't consider myself an accomplished pianist, nor would I place myself in the camp of "musician", I know my way around the ivories enough to get by. So when my friend Mitch asked me to help him write and perform a song at Carnegie Hall, I figured it would be my one and only chance to say I'd played that hallowed hall.

And this was my first mistake.

read on...

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Press on...

These days leave me thinking, pondering, hoping and planning more than ever before. I am not of great wealth. My job ended in late Sept of last year and I have been working tirelessly to pull down any sort of design related work I can find. The hopes of a job offered was dashed when a last minute hiring freeze took place just after the offer was extended. 3 months of preparing for that job lost. Back to square one. Hundreds of resumes, countless bids, too many people going after the same jobs.

My thoughts on the economy these days are dark. I do not quite see the light at the end of the tunnel yet. Yet. We have a new president in office who has quite a load on his shoulders. I feel for him although I also feel good about him being in office. I am hopeful. It's more than one person can fix.

Signs of this wretched economy we've created are everywhere. I am acutely aware of it on a daily basis and it even haunts my dreams. I have always been very independent and enjoyed freelance/sole proprietorship and these days I am glad to have so much experience in this field as I feel it's my only source of reliance. The one thing I know I can count on is me. Not to exclude my friends and family but in the job sense and making it happen for me. Jobs offered, jobs taken away. Freelance is a tough road and you have to really want it. I love what I do although I went a few years of complete boredom with it. But it's a part of me and there is no sense in fighting it. So, I now try to relish it as I did years ago and work with what comes natural to me.

Not long ago I worked for a photographer, Melanie Acevedo. She does fantastic work and I was glad to have met her and her family. She was worked with some amazing magazines doing shoots all over the world. In the latter days of my working in her office we found out that House & Garden, a very well respected and developed magazine was closing (a Condé Nast publication). It was a sad day for many not only in the photography business but those that enjoyed all H&G brought into their lives. It was a wonderful magazine.

A bit of time has gone by and I come to find that another Condé Nast publication, Domino, is also closing it's doors. This was a magazine I read often and encouraged others like me to read as I knew they'd enjoy it. I'm very sad to see it go. Yes, it's just a magazine and no, I don't know anyone other than Melanie (who also shot for Domino) who is directly affected by this event but it's another sign of the pieces crumbling around us.

I watch the market everyday. It's scary to watch the numbers go down. I feel elated when I see a company I know of doing well. I see it's a rare sight. Some feel the pinch of the market more than others. Although I'm being generous with term "pinch" as for many of us, it's quite a bit more than that. And not quite as quick.

Greed, laziness and sheer ignorance are a few of the characteristics that I feel have brought us here. This is horrible but...I have to believe that it will act as a cleansing. Perhaps purging that which needed to be done but many just chose to ignore as that was the easier path, some hoping "it will just go away on it's own" and thus, a monster was created. Many are carrying the burden for those that should be doing it themselves and fixing the problems or dealing with the consequences. I will not name names (or companies).

Please pardon a rant but I just want to tell these companies to deal with the problems they've created and stop whining. Grab you own damn bootstraps and work it out as best you can like the rest of us are. If you fail, at least you failed trying to fix the problem. Not just asking for "Mommy & Daddy" to fix it when it's gone well beyond an easy fix and now others have to pay for your lack of good business practices. Do you see individuals asking for bailouts? I'm tempted to write to President Obama myself and ask his opinion on this. I'd feel his answer would truly be an interesting one. Actually, there is a list of people from which I'd love to hear the answer to that. Some were indulged a bit too much and now expect someone/everyone else to pick up their pieces. I'm trying to pick up my own pieces I cannot spare an ounce of pity for those that don't try to help themselves or ask for the help when things have gotten SO bad, are given it and then it's squandered away.

I have always enjoyed working with small businesses and watching them grow. I enjoy being a part of that and hope to continue to do so. Now more than ever I want to see the little guy make it. For I am one of the "little guys" and I know how it feels. I'm not opposed to big business but often those big businesses started from something small. I try to shop locally to help out the neighborhood where I live. I try to keep my business expenses within the U.S. whenever possible and thus far that has gone quite well. I'd rather spend a few more bucks keeping small businesses alive and well here than elsewhere as we need it too.

The U.S.A. could use some TLC right now. We need to not only look out to help our neighbors around the world but also not forget to take care of our own home too. All that works best does so from a strong foundation. And when you have a nation whose base is fragile (crumbling) and needs attention, how can we expect to help others?

How can one expect to make others happy when we ourselves are not?
When flying one of the first things they do is tell you the safety plans should something happen. They say that you must put your own oxygen mask on first so as to be able to help others. It's true, how can one expect others to live when we are gasping for air and have not the energy nor ability to do it ourselves?

I could go on. But enough said.

We must work hard. Think outside the box. Help others if we can. And truly make smart decisions. We are not done with these hard times. They are going to get worse I fear and it will not be a quick fix. But in order to make it happen, we have to keep ourselves strong and work together.

If you'd read this far, thank you for doing so.

Make your bright future as best you can. Try hard. Never give up. Make smart decisions. This is not a time for rashness.

"Press on. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not. Nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not. Unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not. The world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent." - Calvin Coolidge 1872

Thank you, Dad for giving me this tiny piece of paper with this quote on it so many years ago. I take it with me everywhere I go.